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TRUE COLORS: What Every Conservative Christian Needs To Know About The Pride Flag

In light of two recent events; one being the declaration by mayor John Tory that June 2016 is ‘Pride Month’ in Toronto, and the other, Prime Minister Justin Trudeau’s hoisting the pride flag at the house of commons in Canada’s capital just over a week ago, it’s understandable why traditional or conservative Christians are a tad ticked off.

Most evangelicals and Roman Catholics continue to maintain that homosexuality or same-sex partnering/parenting is not God’s default design for men and women and believe it to be an outworking of the sinful nature. And because of that, they are annoyed at how much attention the pride movement gets. We’ve gone from years of having an entire week dedicated to pride celebrations to a month long event and hey, the way things are headed, 2017 is setting up to be Pride year and 2020 ‘ll be ‘Pride Decade’.

Since the early days of gay activism, the Pride flag has stood as the primary token for anyone celebrating the movement that declares ‘we are separate and different in our sexuality and are not going to stay quiet about it’. The proponents of the movement claim it’s about the freedom to love whomever they want, but let’s be real here – it’s about being fully open in regards to what kind of sex you want to have and with whom.

Stretching from the last quarter of the 20th century and up to the present day, conservative Christians have been angered that the pride movement ‘stole the symbol of the rainbow’ from God or God’s word and that their using it in their parades or as decorations for their front porch was blasphemous and highly disrespectful of the religious community.

But is that really what’s happened? Is the Pride flag even what we think it is?

Here’s a little bit of history:

According to Wikipedia, gay icon Harvey Milk encouraged homosexual activist Gilbert Baker to come up with a symbol of pride for the gay community. His original design was a flag consisting of 8 colors, starting with pink at the top (not a big surprise there!). Apparently, due to fabric unavailability, pink was dropped from the design between 1978 and 79. The flag’s design was left with the 7 colors that corresponded with nature during the formation of a rainbow or when pure light is refracted through a clear glass prism. Those colors are, in case you wondered,

Red Orange Yellow, Green Blue Indigo and Violet.

But then something interesting happened. By 1979, the Gay Pride Flag (as it was referred to back then – there was no LGBTQIA) was reduced from 7 colors to 6! Indigo and turquoise (turquoise is not a color natural to rainbows, per se) were dropped in favor of Royal Blue.

Since then, this 6 color combination has represented the pride movement and has been presumed by most, to represent the rainbow – an atmospheric phenomena and symbol that the God of Judaism gave Noah after the flood. For those rare few of you who don’t know the history – the flood – a world-wide event referenced by many cultures throughout the planet via writings or oral legends – was a real event. The Jewish or Old Testament take on it was that the earth was full of wickedness and had to be purged via a one-off deluge that would wipe out humanity save for one family that would afterward be responsible for repopulating the planet with hopefully less evil than had gone before them. At the end of the flood, and at God’s bidding, the rainbow appeared in the sky to Noah – patriarch of the rescued family – and represented the promise made by God to never fully waterboard humanity again.

Even though this information is out there, there will nonetheless be a lot of religious folk who get bent out of shape whenever they see the pride flag, believing their cherished faith or perceived symbols of their faith (namely the rainbow) are being flouted.

Maybe a different perspective here will help.

ONE: The pride flag doesn’t represent a real rainbow! It isn’t reflective of what occurs normally and naturally in the physical world. It is a banding of 6 – NOT 7! – colors that have absolutely nothing to do with God’s promises or the bible.

TWO: Even if the flag WERE a real rainbow and LGBTQIA folks were deliberately ripping it off from the bible to annoy conservative Christians who don’t acknowledge the pride movement or who don’t wish to give ascent to their sexual proclivities, they shouldn’t be surprised!

Committed Christians are told in Scripture that:

“At the end of time, some will ridicule the faithful and follow their lusts to the grave.” These are the men among you—those who divide friends, those concerned ultimately with this world, those without the Spirit.”
Jude, v.8

“Do not be surprised, brothers, that the world hates you.”
1 John, chap. 3, v.13

“In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted…”
2 Timothy, Chap. 3, v.12

Bible-adherent Christians should expect to be called out or persecuted by those who don’t like them because of their stance on the Truth of God’s word and the healthy, holy direction God wants His children – his people – to follow.

If you are a conservative Christian who is annoyed by the pride-Nazis (those in-your-face proponents of the alternative-sexuality lifestyle) and their influence on society or the pride movement parades – grow a backbone!

Throw a heterosexual pride parade, write a blog-post about your beliefs or write your local politician stating that you are not standing with them if they decide to ride the Tranny-float down the main drag in your fine city. There are probably many things you can do but kvetching isn’t really one of them. Nonetheless, if you’re going to speak out against or attempt to hamper the pride movement’s influence through legal, worthwhile means, remember this one thing: GOD HELP YOU if you don’t love with all your heart every single person – gay or straight – that wants to attack you for what you believe and WHO you believe in.

* We’re told to BLESS those who persecute us – ‘Bless and do not curse’. Love and be ready to serve any and every LGBTQIA soul who does not love you and your reward in the next life is great! Don’t forget that.

Lastly – relax when it comes to the rainbow. It’s still yours … all 7 colors. It was never really taken from you. It’s still there echoing God’s promise to not super-soak humanity in a watery death. I think it’s more important that we realize that through Jesus, we all have been offered the waters of life. Waters that if imbibed of deeply and consistently – will alter us from the inside out and ensure His true colors come shining through – in our every word and every action.

© 2016 Flagrant Regard

* Paul’s Letter to the Romans, Chap. 12, Verse 14 &
   Luke’s Gospel, Chap. 6, Verses 28-36

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PRIDE! Isn’t It One Of The Seven Deadlies?

Gay-Pride-Parade-New-York

You would think that if one were trying to convey that homosexuality is the ‘new normal’, you’d use words like ‘integration’ or ‘acceptance’ or ‘connection’ when thinking about a name for an annual parade – but, no, the gay community uses the word PRIDE.

The active gay community and the media that propogates their declarations would have us believe, especially in the last decade or so, that they are all ‘born this way’ (thank you, Lady Gaga), so where exactly does pride fit in? If you truly didn’t have a choice in the matter as to what you are or aren’t, how can you be proud? Isn’t one proud when one has had a hand in creating something? “Oh Billy, your Lego fort looks lovely, you must be very proud!” If one is born with webbed toes, they can’t exactly say they’re ‘proud of it’ as if they had a hand in their skin’s odd formation, but they could say, “I have accepted my quirky webbed toes as being part of me”.

So which is it? Are you, as a gay man or woman ‘born that way’ or did you have a hand in the creation you have become? If you were born that way, why boast?

I once sat down with an openly gay co-worker (this was back in the 80’s) and had a frank discussion with him about himself, his sexual orientation and about the gays he was friends with. I asked him, “how many of the guys you’re friends with are gay because they experienced male-to-male sexual experimentation when they were young and/or very poor father-son relationships (if at all)?” His answer? “All of them!” This was in Toronto when the gay community was on the cusp of its big ‘outing’.

Did something change between then and now? My guess is ‘not likely’, except maybe for one thing: the growing media inundation with respect to the whole ‘gay is okay’ agenda via images, homo-erotic relationships portrayed on screen (including kids as young as fourteen) and forced education in the schools. (Not many people are aware that just over 40 years ago, homosexuality was considered sexually deviant and/or aberrant behavior in the definitive publication of psychiatric conditions, the DSM-II *.)

I have a close, homosexual friend who does not like being identified with the gay community because of the shenanigans that go on (like lewd, open sexual behaviour that would most likely have any heterosexual arrested for public indecency) and because he feels one’s sexuality is private. At one time, I believe he thought of himself as straight. But because he suffered terrible abuse at the hands of three different priests (God help them at judgment!), he was most likely swayed into his sexual orientation because of the kind of abuse he endured; as is the case with many who’ve suffered such assaults. Yet here’s the thing: he cannot identify with ‘gays’ because he thinks the ‘Pride Parade’ approach and other overt, public manifestations within the framework of society – forgive the play on words – is out-and-out wrong. Disrespectful, even. He deems his sexuality as a private issue – I respect his thoughts here. After all, MY sexual inclinations are not something I plan on building a parade around. It’s personal what goes on in the bedroom, no? But, of course, if I and the hetero community at large planned to openly parade to celebrate traditional marriage, heterosexuality if you will, would we be regarded as intolerant homophobes and shut down? I wonder if such an event were to occur, would the liberal media go so far as to label our parade a form of hate crime and our placards and banners hate speech?

In stark contrast to homosexuals, heterosexuals don’t feel the need put their sexuality ‘on parade’. Sure, there’s raucous, inappropriate sexual imagery foisted upon us repeatedly on TV and in film, but such does not close down a large metropolitan city’s main street for the day. Opposite-gender relationships are generally not defined by sexuality on the surface. It would appear this is NOT the case for the active gay community. Case in point: Maybe you’ve watched one or two episodes of the near-dozen talent competition shows on television. Invariably, in almost every competition, some guy or gal introduces themselves thusly: “Hi, I’m ___ and I’m gay and I just came out to my parents a week ago,” or something along these lines. How conflicted must you be to present your raison d’etre as being that of your sexual proclivity OVER your voice or other talent on a show meant to judge such talents?!

Just once, I’d love to see some contestant on national TV lean over and say into the mic: “Hi my name is _____ and I’m straight. I’ve just come out to my two dads in the last few weeks.” Wouldn’t that be just mind-blowing?

Again, for a group of individuals trying to identify themselves as a new normal, they’re doing it in a strange way. If gay really is a new normal, why toot your horn so loudly? In this era of ‘gay is okay’ and marriage equality, what’s the deal with all the shouting about your sexuality? Keep it to yourself and have some self-respect. Heterosexuals generally choose to identify themselves via their minds, their talents, their gifts and abilities, their sexual proclivity not coming into play with such in-your-face declarations.

I well-realize that pride, in the context of the many gay parades held worldwide, may once have had more to do with the once-closeted homosexual no longer needing to feel ashamed of their sexual nature; that their taking the leap of making a public declaration about their true identity merited the applause of those who would deem such an ‘outing’ as brave (and that such bravery was something to be proud of). But the truth is the Pride Parade is not about that anymore. In the here and now, the Pride Parade is all about, “Hey – this is who we are! We’re in your town and here to make some noise – like it or lump it, b!#ches!”

Since that disposition now appears to be the more dominant reason to dress like your sexual opposite and sashay (or openly fornicate) in the streets, then it seems to me that gay pride is based on the fact that, well … you’re gay. 

My wife claims that I am a natural musician and blessed with a far better than average singing voice. My parents never spent a penny on lessons for me so, yes, I guess I was ‘born this way’. I know lots of other natural-born talented people and the last thing they do is flagrantly boast about it …

© 2013 Flagrant Regard

* https://sites.google.com/site/psych54000/early-dsm

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